Rebuilding Who You Are — Before Anyone Else Defines It

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"Getting ready to get ready will never let you be ready." – Me (and maybe also your higher self whispering in your ear right now)

Let me be real with you…

Reclaiming your identity after divorce isn’t some sparkly Pinterest montage with fairy lights and flute music. It’s messy. It’s emotional. It’s wondering who the hell you even are when you’re not playing wife, mom, provider, fixer, or peacekeeper.

In this week’s blog, I open the door on my still-in-progress journey of figuring it all out.

From cross-stitching in survival mode to chasing Amway dreams I didn’t believe I was worthy of, this is the raw truth behind what it looks like to slowly — and imperfectly — reclaim yourself.

Because the truth is?
You don’t need to have it all figured out.
You just need a flashlight, some survival snacks, water (of course), and a little faith.

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Mirror Moment

Take a beat to reflect:

• What part of your life feels like it belongs to you right now? Not to your past, not to your ex, not to your responsibilities.

• If the answer is “nothing,” what’s one small sliver you could reclaim — even for five minutes this week?

Write it down.*
No judgment. No pressure. Just space to hear yourself think.

* No excuses here. I already told you to go to the dollar store and buy a journal. I’ll wait… [taps watch, and whistles…] 

Spill The Tea

You don’t have to go through this alone. Hit reply and share:

• What’s one way you’ve started reclaiming your identity? (Even if it’s still messy.)

Take It With You

You’re not behind. You’re not broken.

You are becoming.

And I, for one, can’t wait to see who you become.

In your corner,

Helping women navigate divorce with courage, clarity, and new beginnings.

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